i love being married. and grown up. and doing grown up things.
but since moving to Indianapolis (and finally leaving TU/Upland),
we've found a bit of a stumbling block in our adult life.
I would say that we're both social, outgoing people.
but man, making friends when you're an adult can be kind of hard.
unless you meet at work, school, or church...
where do you meet?
I was talking to a girl at school about this.
We swapped numbers and were like...
that was awkward.
I feel like a 12 year old who just moved cross country and doesn't have social skills.
And then you add the challenge of approval of your spouse.
That sounds shallow.
but you all know its true.
And then there's time.
um, we're busy. and it takes effort to develop friendships.
ugh...can't we just go back to high school/college and have all of our old friends live down the hall/road from us?!
ok, but seriously.
its not that bad.
anywho, all this to say...
we're going out on a limb tonight.
We're going to a small group for married couples through our church.
we're the youngest.
and we have not met any of them.
will we fit it?
will I like them, but J not?
we really need fellowship and to feel like we belong to TPCC,
so I'm praying it goes well.
And I'm sure I'm being a baby.
but sometimes grownup things are uncomfortable.
this is one of those things.
here goes nothing!